We will organize three things in our house: the TV, the internet and the phone. Because if we cannot control these three things, we cannot save our eyes from haram, our time from heedlessness, and our hearts from gloom. Television, internet and telephone determine the Ramadan agenda of those who cannot control the television, internet and phone.
We will ban three things in our house: Backbiting, argument and resentment. Because backbiting consumes our righteous deeds that we do. Discussion opens the doors of quarrel, noise, grudge and hatred. Nothing is left of fasting morality. Resentment poisons Ramadan to us. These three mistakes are the greatest opportunities offered to the devil to ruin our Ramadan.
We will continue three things in our house: prayer with congregation, recitation of the Qur'an and weekly conversation. Because the congregation prayer provides the order of the house and creates the spiritual atmosphere. The recitation of the Qur'an becomes healing to our hearts and blessings to our homes. Conversation becomes food to our souls and advice to our family. In order to achieve all these, we will make our tarawih as a family. We will do our response as a family. Once a week, we will listen to conversations and lectures.
We will reproduce three things in our house: Prayer, forgiveness and dhikr. Because prayer is the essence of worship. Prayers made to the family bind the family together. Forgiveness prevents troubles and calamities and opens the door to Allah's mercy. Dhikr softens our hearts, brightens our faces and increases our spiritual degrees.
We will reduce three things in our home: eating too much, sleeping too much, talking too much. Because eating too much causes illness, sleeping too lazy, talking too much causes mistakes. That's why we will avoid wasting food, wasting sleep, and wasting words.
We will abandon three habits in our house: criticism, condemnation and sarcasm. Because constant criticism keeps our loved ones away from us. Constant condemnation kills the conversation between us. Sarcastic speech stirs our souls. If we cannot give up these habits, there will be nothing left in the house from Ramadan.
We will gain three traits in our home: mildness, facilitation, and forgiveness. Because soft disposition is the door to peace and happiness. Facilitating world affairs means leaving plenty of time for the affairs of the hereafter. Forgiveness is a Ramadan morality in itself.
We will avoid three things in our house: Breaking hearts, investigating shame, entering the right of servants. Because breaking a heart distracts the peace of the house, searching for shame will distract the peace of the heart, and entering the right of a servant disturbs the peace in the world and the hereafter. In particular, we will avoid breaking the hearts of our wives, hitting their faults and faults on their faces and not entering the right of servants.
We will not neglect three things in our house: write off each other's debts, to apologize, to thank. Because being halal ends the hatred in the hearts. Apologizing shows that we care about our loved ones. Thanking encourages all kinds of good and good deeds.
We will not cut three connections in our house: relatives, neighbors, and strangers. Because the relationship with relatives is the abundance of sustenance and life. Good livelihood with neighbors is a requirement of our morals. Relationship with strangers is a means of mercy.
We will not let three things into our house: interest, unfair income and food with haram additives. Because the interest that enters the house will also bring the troubles and calamities after them. Unfair earnings spoil peace and abundance. Haram earnings prevent the acceptance of our prayers.
We will strive for three prayers to enter our house: the prayer of our parents, the prayer of the strange, the prayer of the righteous. Because parental prayer is a rare opportunity for a peaceful Ramadan. The prayer of the strangers and the needy is a shield against trouble and calamity. The prayer of the righteous is blessing for our home, our sustenance and our life.
We will promote three things in our home: patience, gratitude and conviction. For the steadfast is given the strength to endure, the blessings are increased to the thankful, and the gates of wealth are opened to the satisfied.