Abdulaziz Kıranşal: "Ramadan program for our homes?"

Abdulaziz Kıranşal: "Ramadan program for our homes?"
Date: 23.4.2020 17:30

Milli Gazete columnist Abdulaziz Kıranşal writes on holy month Ramadan. Here is the full article.

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We will arrange three things in our house: TV, internet and phone. Because if we cannot control these three things, we cannot save our eyes from haram, save our time from unawareness and our hearts from gloominess. The agenda of those who cannot control the television, the internet and the phone, the Ramadan agenda of them is determined by television, internet and telephone.
 
We will forbid three things in our house: in diabetes, discussion and resentment. Because, giabetes will eat our righteous deeds. The debate opens the doors to fight, noise, hatred and hatred. There is nothing left in the ethics of fasting. Resentment poisons Ramadan on us. These three mistakes are the greatest opportunities offered to the devil to ruin our Ramadan.
 
We will continue with three things in our house: Prayer with the congregation, the recitation of the Quran and weekly conversation. Because prayer with the congregation provides the order of the house, creates a spiritual atmosphere. The Quran recitation, healing our hearts, and abundance in our homes. Chat, food to our soul, and advice to our family. To achieve all this, we will make our tarawih family. We will make our response as a family. We will listen to chat and lectures once a week.
 
We will replicate three things in our house: Prayer, staple and dhikr. Because prayer is the essence of worship. Family prayers connect the family. Istigfar prevents trouble and misfortune and opens the door to the mercy of Allah. Zikr softens our hearts, lightens our faces and increases our spiritual degrees.
 
We will reduce three things in our house: eating a lot, sleeping a lot, talking a lot. Because eating too much causes illness, sleeping too much laziness, talking too much mistakes. That is why we will avoid wasting food, wasting sleep and wasting words.
 
In our house we will leave three moods: criticism, condemnation and pinning. Because constant criticism drives our loved ones away from us. Constant condemnation kills the conversation between us. The sarcastic conversations activate our ego. If we cannot give up these natures, there will be nothing left of Ramadan at home.
 
We will win three moods in our house: Soft temper, facilitation, forgiveness. Because soft temper is the door of peace and happiness. Facilitating in world affairs means leaving plenty of time for hereafter. Forgiveness is a Ramadan morality in itself.
 
We will avoid three things in our house: from breaking the heart, searching for shame, entering the right of servant. Because breaking the heart misses the peace of the house, searching for shame, the peace of the heart and entering the right of the servant misses the peace of the world and the hereafter. In particular, we will refrain from breaking the hearts of our spouses, shaking their flaws and defects, and entering the right of servant.
 
We will not neglect three things in our house: to be halal, to apologize, to thank. Because being halal ends your grudge in the hearts. Apologizing shows that we value our loved ones. Thanking encourages all kinds of good and good.
 
We will not cut three connections in our house: with relatives, neighbors, and strangers. It is because of the relationship with the relative and the abundance of life. Nice livelihood with neighbors is a requirement of our morality. It is the occasion of mercy in relation to the strange.
 
We will not bring three things into our home: interest, unfair earnings and haram additives. Because the interest that enters the house brings trouble and trouble. Unfair wins miss peace and abundance. Haram bites the acceptance of our prayers.
 
We will strive for three prayers to enter our house: the prayer of our parents, the prayer of the strange, the prayer of the righteous. Because parental prayer is a unique opportunity for a peaceful Ramadan. The prayers of the strangers and the needy are shielded against troubles and misfortunes. The prayers of the righteous are blessings for our home, our sustenance and our life.
 
We will encourage three things in our house: patience, gratitude and conviction. Because patience is given strength, blessings are increased to gratitude, and wealth doors are opened to those who believe.

YEREL HABERLER

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