Fatma Tuncer: "Father is the roof of the house"

Fatma Tuncer: "Father is the roof of the house"
Date: 17.2.2019 16:00

Milli Gazete writer Fatma Tuncer writes on family life. Here is the full article.

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Family is a small unit consisting of mother, father and children. However, this small unit is so effective that it is possible to see the family in the state and the state in the family. The individuals who compose the society take their first education here under the supervision of their parents. Muslim societies that have been invaded by global capitalism can’t survive this invasion unless they reinforce the family institution. Young people who can live their lives in the axis of morality and spirituality can only grow in a family environment where the Islamic atmosphere is dominant.
 
Father is the roof of the house; mother is father's greatest supporter and children's governess. Parents are economists, educators, sociologists, consultants, servants of the family. Children pass from education under this roof and prepare for life. The collapse or development of society is closely related to the qualification of the family. If the family institution has collapsed at the moral point, if mother, father and children are living broken off and if they can’t produce a value that can be added to life, it isn’t possible for that society to rise. The malice powers which split the Islamic geography targeted the family first, and trapped the family members by breaking them off. 
 
The family is like a bunch of grapes. Although individuals carry unique characteristics and can make their choices individually, they are connected to the family at the center. The factor that links the family is the communication between them. To continue communication in a healthy way, values such as love, trust, intimacy, sharing, sacrifice and patience should be strengthened and made permanent. Especially the proximity communications that strengthen the roof of the family and helps people get to know each other is essential. In the home environment, individuals are physically and emotionally close to each other and supply their needs such as love, trust and approval in here. 
 
Nowadays, even though family members live under the same roof, they are emotionally distant from each other. Mother, father and children lock themselves in their rooms and try to adapt to the virtual world there. This not only deprives the family members of the gains of being a family, but also causes to communication problems. However, the parents are trying to get out of the business by leaning on ifs and buts instead of repairing the crack on the roof.

YEREL HABERLER

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