While doing a job you love, your motivation rises, your joy is restored and your effort turns into love and joy, and you cannot even notice your tiredness. When you are cheerful, time has passed so quickly that when you raise your head, you will meet a fresh morning and be drawn into the shadow of memories. Spending time with the people you love and being busy with a job you love will bring you closer to love and you will find yourself at a point you never imagined. The color of the sky turns bright, the trees turn green, the pain turns to ashes, and you cannot understand how time passes. Days, months, years have passed and you feel like you have just woken up from a sweet sleep. And when you turn your head, what you see is hope, joy, success… When you are happy, time flies like a spring rain. You, on the other hand, keep the years spent with the taste of love among your memories, and you open them and read them again when you feel the need.
When you feel good, time passes very quickly, and when you are exposed to pain, time becomes more rigid and longer. In such situations, minutes turn into hours, days, months, and years, and you feel like you're stuck in a trap. Pain prolongs time, time magnifies pain and you continue on the road with prayers. As the pain grows, time takes longer, but thankfully, in such situations, you feel much closer to God and you can fight the pain with the power of prayer.
Kinship relations strengthen spiritually
Our supreme religion is based on the strengthening of kinship ties and strongly recommends the preservation of this system. Muslim peoples believe that preserving these naturally formed ties is a form of worship and they take care. Your relations with a friend of yours have started at a certain point in your life and continue on the axis of your effort. The ties of kinship that Allah has bestowed on you are naturally established, and you find your blood relatives at your bedside when you are born. When you come to the world, you will meet with a family of relatives who will embrace you with affection and a group of relatives who will love you unconditionally, and you will adapt to the world with their support. Your family and relatives are in the first circle of your life and they make you feel safe.
Ibn Khaldun sees the phenomenon of kinship as a system bestowed by Allah specifically on this world in order for people to support each other and states that there will be no need for such a thing in the hereafter. The kinship relations, which the Messenger of Allah strongly emphasized, are like a secret insurance, and people meet their many needs thanks to this naturally established system. Muslims, who attach importance to their relations with relatives, deal with problems with a unifying, assimilating and sharing method rather than an individualist approach and reach solutions.
Kinship relations have brought both material and moral gains to individuals. As a matter of fact, studies have shown that people who are sensitive at this point are less likely to have problems such as stress, anxiety and depression. As a matter of fact, kinship relations help individuals to be renewed and strengthened by keeping them away from the suffocating atmosphere, monotony and deadlock that life brings, as well as their spiritual gains. Kinship ties both mature individuals personally and strengthen them spiritually.