It is very difficult to make people happy nowadays. Once happiness differed in terms of content, there were also great changes on the way to happiness. What makes people happy is actually closeness to the natural. As long as man desires and realizes the natural, he will be happy. As he moves away from the nature, he will lose his happiness and go into search. The most important reason why people are swept away in this way today is that they substitute others instead of seeking their lost happiness.
People of our age think that they can be happy when they are perfect. That's why he always strives to be perfect. However, being complete is not a human characteristic. We may even think that human beings are valuable because they are incomplete. In fact, people manage to be happy not because they are complete and perfect, but because they complement each other. We can say that happiness is sharing.
Every person is happy when he shares his talents, abilities, knowledge, skills and material possessions with others. Because this sharing contributes to the elimination of deficiencies, the completion of each other, and thus the peace and tranquility of the community in which they live. As long as social harmony is ensured, every individual reaches the happiness provided by this harmony. In addition, the spiritual satisfaction of sharing should not be forgotten.
But today's world has been in search of the perfect person and therefore has not reserved a place for some of the people in the general course of life. Since they are not relatively close to perfection, they should dedicate their lives only to the perfect person. The happiness of those who have conditioned themselves to be perfect is actually nothing but pleasure.
Of course, the feeling that a person who turns to the constructed, not the natural, will reach is pleasure. While happiness enables the expansion of the inner world of the person, it will cause contraction after a while as the pleasure falls into repetition. For this reason, it is inevitable that the problem of satisfaction will arise before us, since every pleasure will lead to more. When this is the case, some of the people, perhaps the majority, do not have the opportunity to experience the happiness of trying to realize the pleasure of other people.
By accepting their shortcomings, people leave aside the chance to complete each other and be happy. Contrary to this opportunity, the happiness of the majority is taken away for the comfort of a small minority. However, there are opportunities in this world that will make us all happy. The only problem is that people tend to the built instead of preferring the natural. That's why people who can be happy by completing each other's shortcomings and sharing life prefer to build towers over others' shortcomings in order to reach more pleasure.
The fact is that every human being with a natural birth has been created with different features that stand out. Those who share these prominent features make both themselves and other members of the society happy. However, those who want to take advantage of this by turning these features into privileges cause other people's unhappiness. Although they live in comfort and well-being, in the end, the unhappiness of the people around them will reflect on them, so they build their own unhappiness in this way.